Divorce pending dating

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The purpose is to determine exactly when the relationship began, whether it is sexual, whether any marital property has been transferred to the new friend, such as by gift, how much money was spent on dating this person, and whether the spouse has said anything that could be used against him or her at trial.Even if everything is on the up-and-up, the result is a lot of unnecessary aggravation and cost.Even so, the presence of someone new, particularly when paraded in front of the spouse and/or children, can enrage the soon-to-be ex, and also create the suspicion that the relationship began as an “affair” before the separation.

In many states, the party who is “at fault” for the divorce can face penalties or other types of “punishments.” Courts can choose to award additional spousal support and other measures when there’s proof that a person cheated or was involved in an extramarital affair.

In California, this is not the case and all divorces are considered no-fault.

So while dating as a divorce hangs in the air is considered an extramarital affair, this has no bearing on the court’s decisions involving spousal support.

Wait until a reasonable time after the divorce is over before introducing your friend to your children.

Do not blame your spouse for becoming irrationally angry and your children for becoming resentful and alienated from you.

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