Dating 2 months now
Your object of desire is laden with fantasies and projections. That's why I always say to myself, to my friends, and to you, single people, check in after three months and tell me how great the new person you're dating is.
That’s what dating is all about: finding out if two people have the qualities and compatibility to sustain a relationship over the long haul. Some people think that love comes in the form of frequent phone calls, text messages and joined-at-the-hip partnership. (The Frisky) -- First thing one morning I got a text from one of my friends, the kind I get all too often: "Met my future husband last night!" My response was my standard one: "Get back to me in three months." If I've learned one valuable thing from the dating whirligig I've been on for the last six years (give or take six months here or there), it's that you must wait at least three months before getting excited about the long-term possibilities of a new person.A time of bliss, you aren’t feeling awkward and timid, or working so damn hard to look good all the time.You’re finally able just to sit back and enjoy the ride, right?