Advice about dating an older man
These men have probably been working for many years; they have savings or plans for a financially secure future when compared to younger men just starting their lives.
So, young women feel more comfortable dating an older man who fits this description.
This means they can listen and understand how younger women feel.
You have opinions that are considered and respected, and you have the confidence to deliver them; the younger man is limited to names and performances of his favorite sportsmen, while you can hold court upon any subject with ease.
The older man in a relationship with a younger woman often struggles to correctly identify what it is that has attracted her in the first place.
Consequently, trying to work out what preconception attracted her to you and acting upon your mistaken logic can actually have a negative effect.
Guys mature emotionally at a much slower rate than women and can easily get into their thirties with the emotional intelligence of a five-year-old. Show her that your maturity ensures that a relationship with you is a true emotional partnership, not a one-way street to toy town! You don’t get to your later years without learning a thing or two.
This doesn’t mean that you have to talk at length about quantum physics or sub-Saharan politics.